We are now into the second week of February, and are quickly approaching what most people call Valentine's Day, and what I call Friday. That's right, I'm single. Please contain your excitement boys.
Anyway, as a single person who's never had a valentine before, I've had to be creative with how I spend this special love day. And I thought I'd share what I've come up with. This isn't a post to make you feel bad about your relationship status, and these aren't activities that should or have to be reserved for Valentine's day--as I said before, it's essentially just another Friday night. You can choose to do one of these, or spread the activities out over the entire weekend. SO without further adieu, here is your single girl's guide to how to spend Valentine's day...or any day.
Thanks but no thanks...
Bake something
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Look for a really easy recipe on
Pinterest or
Allrecipes.com for brownies or cake or something yummy, and pull a Betty Crocker (she's not even a real person, oops) in the kitchen. The best part about creating these treats as an independent young person who doesn't need anyone to define you, is that you can indulge in them all by yourself. Nothing's worse than having to give away half your cupcakes or cookies to others (kidding), when you can stuff your face with all of them, ha.
Get Pampered
Do some primping and make yourself feel good. Get a manicure or a facial and use this day to give yourself the TLC you deserve. Go all out with what you choose to do at the nail salon, and for the next two weeks, let those pretty nails be a reminder of the wonderful day you had with yourself...the #1 person in your life.
Send V-Day cards to your loved ones
Instead of sending a sappy text message to some guy, make or buy a few cards, and write personal messages to the people who will appreciate it the most: your friends and family. Love isn't always professed to a significant other; your platonic relationships are important too. Use this day to remind your loved ones how much you value, admire, and, well, love them! I guarantee it'll warm their little hearts, and that your card will be the one they actually
keep after V-day.
Surf the internet
This is exactly what I mean by surfing the net..yep.
If you read my last
blog post, you know how much I love the internet. It can be used for productivity, like searching for summer jobs or companies you'd like to work for in the future, but I also personally enjoy searching for vacation destinations, taking personality tests, reading blogs, or watching celebrity news or pointless videos on YouTube. Try googling one topic, and see where it takes you by the time the clock strikes 3 am (because that's what the internet'll do to ya).
Go out with a potential new friend
As much as you may be worrying and/or complaining about it, I'm sure not everrry single one of your friends is in a relationship. And if they are, why not invite someone you've been meaning to get to know out for coffee or dessert (or, you know, both)? This will give you a chance to engage in some stimulating one-on-one conversation, and you may even end the night with a new friend with whom you bonded with because of your lack of Valentines dates.
Attend a school event (or any event)
Most schools plan some sort of event to "celebrate" V-day, whether it be a dance, traffic light party, or just a crazy bash for the student body to enjoy. And I encourage you to go, not necessarily with the intention of meeting your next boy or girl toy, but to go out, have a good time, and meet cool new people. Talk to someone or everyone, and keep an open mind. You might be surprised at how much fun you have. Show others just how charming and amazing you are, and maybe you'll meet your Prince Charming (you probably won't)!!!!!!!
Raid the discount DVD bins at stores
Big box stores like Walmart and Target always have those huge bins of discounted DVDs in the electronics section. Visit one of these stores and purchase your favourite movie, a classic film you haven't seen yet, or even a $5 flick that looks terrible--that way you'll either be pleasantly surprised by how good it turns out to be, or entertained by how horrible it truly is.
Get some retail therapy
It's been proven that shopping for the soul is actually a thing now. It can be relaxing and reduce stress, but it's also
so much fun. Head to the mall and buy some new pieces for your spring wardrobe, because getting new things is good. And if you don't have money, tell your parents that because you're not in a relationship, you have to buy yourself gifts, letting a single tear fall down your cheek and guilting them into funding your mid-February shopping trip.
Stay Home
If none of these suggestions tickle your fancy, something that never fails is spending the night wrapped up in a blanket like a little burrito, and engaging in the two best activities ever created: sleeping and eating. It's nice to go out and have a good time with friend or partner, but there are times when I'm thankful that I don't have to dress up, make my face look decent, and leave the house (unless I'm stepping outside to pay the pizza man or something). Ugh, there's just something so attractive about my bed...and the thought of me in it.
Count your blessings
Being single isn't the end of the world. In fact, it can be a blessing, depending on how you look at it. Take this time to focus on school or work, become more independent, and grow as a person. Be thankful for what you have, confident in who you are, and have faith in what's in store for the future. The right person for you is out there, and you will both benefit from how much
more amazing you'll be after this time you've taken to work on yourself. But in the meantime, be patient and enjoy your life!
What are your plans for Valentine's Day?
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